Cary helped me overcome a number of "techno-fears." I first met him at a Macworld convention.
Whenever a new technology was introduced, if Cary wrote about it, I got an understanding of it.
When a good friend died a few years ago another friend asked me, "Where would he be safe?" I thought for a moment, envisioned the place, and felt better. Now that I did it with Cary, I feel the connection is even stronger.